Sally: What might be interesting for folks to know, Marion, is the

 
fact that you have had your own RVing experience. What
about that?
Marion: In 1993, we bought a ’93 Bounder motorhome. What

 
did we know? We were first-time RVers. I know, let’s
go into the video business. Someone who was doing
that in Denver trained us to do it. Within six months,

we learned from first-hand experience that Arizona

is the sixth largest state in the union. We were averaging

about six to eight miles to the gallon and we

were out on the road weekly. There were places we

couldn’t get that 34-foot Bounder into small video

store parking lots.

We had to find some alternatives. We had to buy

a van; we had to move into a park model; a small and

very nice trailer. I now know I can live simply.

It was a struggle for us because there’s a lot of

risk in starting your own business. We had started

a business before but not like that. So the RVing for

us didn’t last very long.

Sally: You meet some people who do RVing, some really amazing

 
women, and now you want to tell their stories. Besides the
telling of their story, what is your fascination with these
women who live this lifestyle—the RVing lifestyle?

Marion: I’ve always been a big fan of the WPA (Work Projects

 
Administration) from the Depression. I’m a part-time
student at Phoenix College and they built most of
the buildings there. I go over often and admire the

plaque with President Roosevelt’s name on it and say,

“Here’s the buildings those guys built.��?

I met women who did work in that era. I found

that connection fascinating. I met Ruth Silver and

talked to her and heard her story. I began to realize,

while I may not be RVing anymore, I’m around

women who are and their stories are important. Then

 
the connection with To Give Voice and to be heard
just kind of all came together.
 

 

 
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Sally: So here you are with a big Web site, www.togivevoice. com,

all of your own. But the big question is: Are you still   

 
the biggest fear you face?
 

 
Marion: Yes, and I face that fear every day.
Sally: And what gets you beyond that? Because clearly, you’re 

 
functional and you’re doing a heck of a bang-up job with
this stuff. Where does your love of the storytelling business
come in, in terms of telling other people’s stories that are

not fictional, for example?

Marion: One of the things Mom said about me as a kid is

 
that people would come up and just start talking to
me—to the point where she’d have to keep an eye on
me. And to me, that was just another story you hear

from your mom.

Someone I know said, “No, it’s something about

you personally.��? So that was the first time I was aware

that people singled me out for a reason.

 
There’s something about me and I can’t see it
from in here. I don’t know if it’s a sense of empathy
or friendliness because I’ll tend to say “Hey��? before

someone else does. I finally realized that’s my gift

and people don’t get heard, but they need to be heard

and that led to To Give Voice in terms of realizing

that’s my remaining life’s work.

Sally: People need to be heard. Can you say more about that? I 

 
mean how that idea gelled in your mind to become what
this is. I think this is really important—the whole “people
need to be heard��? thing.

Marion: There are far more stories out there than I’ll ever have

 
time to tell. But I’m going to make a dent, and 100 years
from now, I think that effort will matter to someone.
My intent was to capture stories in a way that

would be put in a time capsule and buried somewhere

symbolically.

The challenge is that if people don’t keep up with

technology we won’t be able to hear these voices in

the future. The book becomes important because we

can still read it.

So the multimedia is important because it allows

me to afford people an opportunity to speak for

themselves. The only reason I’m being interviewed

is because others want to know, “Why are you doing

this?��? Some people think I’m absolutely out of my

mind, and they’re probably right.

 Remember…audio may not always match the text

due to book editing decisions…two different mediums. 

 
 
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I have always been fascinated by who people are, where they

 
come from and why they live on one side of the street instead
of the other. Imagine my surprise when I met a group of

women who chose to live on no street at all.

The following five interviews come from women who made

the decision to RV full-time. Each comes to her story from a

 
different perspective but they all share a strength I just had
to explore.

Who drives away from the American   

 
Dream and into a nomadic life?
How do you build community

 
with other nomadic travelers?

 
And when you can no longer travel …

 
What happens then?

 
These interviews are not about buying an RV and they are
not RVing travelogues. Rather, they reveal the courage it takes

for a woman to RV. These women are unique. There’s a strength

within them—a strength they may not see themselves.

And THAT is the core of my passion for these stories.

I want to know what other women think, even if you don’t

RV, but you do see yourself reflected in their strength. Or you

would like to.

The interviews occur in an order that resonates as the stories

progress:

Marion Orem opens with this brief introduction and

 
Part I of my own RV interview, conducted by Sally.
Zoe Swanagon follows with her compulsion to buy

 
an RV and the legacy impact that compulsion would have on
1000s of women.

Lovern King shares a decision to RV full-time that led

 
her and Zoe to found RVW, a travel club for women who RV,
in the early 1990s.

Sally Exworthy & Jan Scott follow with what

 
they had to keep and what they had to let go when they began
RVing for a second time.

Ruth Silver reveals a story in her monologue that

 
begins with an RV focus but ends with her thoughts about
community.

Marion Orem closes with Part II of her interview by

 
exploring why these stories are important to any woman,
regardless of her RV experience.

 
Now, I‘ve been warned on occasion, “Senior women won’t
visit your Web site. They won’t care about a blog or even know

how to listen to a podcast. They won’t have a clue how to download

mp3 files. Who’s interested in these stories anyway?��?

I’m interested, and as a member of the Arizona Book

 
Publishing Association I’ve been assured, “We all have an insatiable
need to read and to hear stories about ourselves ….��? I’m

hangin’ with the authors and publishers on this one because if

we don’t get our own stories, no one else is going to.

This interview process has been a humbling experience. It

has challenged my own thoughts about community and how

each of us can benefit from these women, their strength … and

their wisdom.

Note: Episodes content may vary from the book and audio   

due to reader and listener editing choices.

 
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It takes courage to go off and live full-time in your RV, even

 
more so for a woman, I believe. Thoughts that can occur:

 
�?� Can I drive an RV?

 
�?� Is it safe?

�?� How will I meet people and experience a sense of

 
community?

�?� What do I do if I have a problem? Can I really sell everything,

 
give up my home and live in an RV?

Having a mentor, another woman who is living on the road

and who loves the RV lifestyle, can make the difference. She

provides you with a role model, someone to whom you can go

if you have questions. Think of her as a friend who has already

figured out the ropes.

Women who choose this lifestyle are strong and courageous.

They have bravely stepped into the unknown. They push forward

in spite of their fears, possessing the self-confidence to

know they will be able to figure things out as they go along

and deal with any problems as they arise.

 
The joy of the open road and their own personal freedom

are what matters most to these women.

Women Who RV and Their Kindred Spirits gives voice to women

 
who had the courage to follow their dreams and take the path

less traveled. These women are special and can be mentors to

other women who have thought of the RV lifestyle as an attractive

option but have not yet taken that step toward living it.

They are also role models for living your dream, whatever

that dream may be. It takes courage to step out of your old life

and try something new. These women did it in spite of questions

and fears. They found new adventures, new abilities, and—in

some cases—new lives as a result.

So can you.

—Jaimie Hall Bruzenak

Author of RV Traveling Tales: Women’s Journeys on the Open

 
Road, The Woman’s Guide to Solo RVing and other RV books.

 
—RVLifestyleExperts.com

 

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I honestly thought that Kindred Spirit Marty Hanus

would be the last one standing. He was the first to fall.

Rest in peace my friend…

Women Who RV, Volume I

   

 “Every end is a beginning … gain is disguised as loss …

the trick is to metabolize the pain as energy ….��?
 

 —Julia Cameron, the Artist’s Way
 
 
When my mother died in 1981, I thought that was as tough as it gets.
 
I was wrong. A crisis of self-confidence interrupted my daily routine with an 
isolation so swift it challenged my sanity.
 
Success had always come easy for me, as natural as sunrise

and sunset. Dread drifted in like fog, unsuspected and unsettling.

It was my mind that I came to fear the most. A lifelong ally

suddenly turned enemy.

I became obsessed with the question: “Is the glass half empty

or is it half full?��? For me, the glass was empty.

Haunted by negative fears and thoughts, a self-fulfilling

prophesy began to take hold—a prophesy I struggle with to

this day. “You are the biggest fear you face right now,��? I was

cautioned by someone who reached out to help me.

I am the biggest fear I face and I struggle with that fear

every day. I exploit that struggle through writing and digital

  

storytelling. My mother’s love of the movies nurtured a legacy

that became my lifeline.

 
Authentic Voices Productions was born out of that legacy and
that lifeline. I want “…to give voice��? through digital storytelling
 
 

 

interviews. Interviews that will celebrate the voices of women

who follow their dreams.

 
A single voice can capture attention. Attention can become
the foundation for a story. The story can then grow into
an interview that can be shared with others.
For me, the glass is full now, replenished by stories yet to

be heard. Digital storytelling is not work for the faint of heart,

but it is my remaining life’s work.

My mother’s favorite movie: 42nd Street—1933 starring Dick

Powell and Ruby Keeler. My favorite memory: I can still hear

Mom tap dancing while she does the dinner dishes—always

a magic time for me.

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 “What woman drives away from the American dream and into a nomadic life? 

 How does she build community with other women travelers? 

 And when she can no longer travel, what happens then? 

 And always, always, the nagging fear: 

 ‘Will anyone care about these stories?’ 

 Will you?     

About the Author:  

Marion Orem lives in the southwest and has been hearing others’ voices for as long as she can remember. She’d like to hear yours. She’s learned that technical perfection is an endless quest – a quest that honors the voices of those who can no longer speak for themselves. 

 People communicate through digital technology today. I mean “… to give voice��? and we mean to be heard.

 —Marion Orem
 Phoenix, Arizona
 
 
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Our goal was to do “multiple video takesâ€? – this one was more fun than
productive.

I used to wear glasses – couldn’t see a thing – cue card flip chart was
taped to camera stand – “…we need bigger print!”

Thanks to videographer/editor Shirley Roderick and wardrobe/set consultant
Linda Hunter – we ALL had a good time!

 
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Greetings! 

Our goal was to do “multiple video takes” – review the best-of-the-best – fine-tune-edit
one – burn the video file to disk – post the 1-minute video to the podcast page – in 1 day.

And we did – working 9 AM to 3 PM with no breaks!

There will be 26 Episodes of 3 minutes average posted weekly from the Women Who RV and Their Kindred Spirits audio CD and book.

Your “Comment” (above at No Comments) would be appreciated as we move June through September together…

Marion  Orem

 
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My first Authentic Voices interview in late 2004 was someone I thought would be interested in having his story heard. One I was interested in hearing.

Something about him he wanted others he cared about to know. An accomplishment he was very proud of but hadn’t really shared with anyone.I knew I’d be safe with him and my “fledgling� interview passion. And I was…

My brother-in-law Norm Miller passed away in March 2008. His respect for the B-36 was captured in the movie “Strategic Air Command� during the take-off and flight scenes. 

I can’t think of a better way to honor Norm then “taking off� with him in that B-36 thanks to the film.

He was anything but “Just an Ordinary Guy…� and his was the first voice I recorded.

Marion Orem

 
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